This post was meant to be published yesterday but due to some problems with the phone, i can only post it today.

Im feeling so irritated i have to make a post through my phone cus its damn lag. but i have to stand up for and by my friend. She's probably crying now and i dare not call her cus i dont know how to handle the situation. but i want to let her know that i will stand by her. always.

Recently, (almost) everyone ard me is facing frendship probs. i know tat its tough to keep a relationship and the thought of having to share ur friends are just... so *urh*. and its even harder to point a finger at someone saying :'hey, its ur fault!'

Everyone has their flaws. and i am going to say abt how 'bad' this particular fren is.

1)she rarely says 'please' and just take ur stuff.

2)she brings stuff toys to sch and shows them to the rest of e class.

3)she laugh at every nonsensicle stuff.

4)she always makes exaggerated actions and hit u in your face.

5)she speaks like you are irritating her sometimes.

6)she's so freaking noisy during lessons i wish she could just shut up.

here are her 6 major flaws. and i can see that they are pretty nasty and you must be tinking "why the fuck wld someone want to be her fren. no wonder she's crying. HA!!"

still, she have great frens supporting her and standing by her side. cheehooi, yun rou, eeling, pamela, daniel, and of course I, are (needless to say) proud to be her frens who can have htht for even 5 whole hours.

well, seriously speaking, i hate her for taking without asking. but she's the type of person who let u take her stuff without asking too. it's hard to get used to it. but u will soon realise she is much more generous than u tink. she lends you stuff without qns asked because she trusts. and tats what all friendships are abt, isnt it?

she brings toys bought by her boyfriends and 'show off' to the class. it seems irritating. but let's think deeper. what if you have a fren and she tells eveyone how great you are and brings the presents u gave her ard to 'show off' to the rest because she is PROUD to have such a great fren like you! To me, tats a pretty sweet thing to do. and i certainly wouldnt be upset abt it. and shouldnt u feel happy that she have a boyfren she's really proud of? i admit i wasnt sure that she's doing the right thing by accepting him but let it be. daniel's her bf. not urs. she knows him more than you do. so in wad position are u (or I) to dislike her relationship. at the most, we can only express our opinions.

one thing i srly dont understand is: a person cannot make friends with her friend's enemy.

must you distance away from ur friends just because u dislike them being tgt?? and the prob is : YOU distance away from her and she has not. It is pretty obvious that u walked away from her. how can someone be so irresponsible to just leave her fren without any explanation and not even a chance to change! Ayesha may seem rude but u are even ruder. she kindly lent u her notes and u just pointed to her words and give a super irritated face:'wads this?' and u actually scolded her being a joker. wtf?? dont copy from her den. get ur own freaking notes. (get the convo on ayesha's blog: www.glam-finale.blogspot.com)

BTW, flaws no. 3,4,6 is what sets her different from others and these are the characteristics that make u laugh like mad. provide leisure or just a smile during the most boring lessons u can have!

i cant understand no5 but now we are just down to one flaw. whr can u find a person with one irritating flaw only??

now i want to tell the person who made her cry. you took ur frens for granted. you treat ppl so nice when u are in good mood but treat them like junk when u arent in a good mood... maybe u havent noticed this but now im going to tell u, if u still choose to leave such a great person now, you will look back someday and regret wad u did.

it doent matter anymore. it wld be great tat you'll be close frens with ayesha again. but if u dont, ayesha, dont worry. you still have the rest of us. and we will love u. always. u deserve better anyway.